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You Don’t Need a Personal Brand… Or Do You? | Challenge Day 3

Who is this for — and what do I want to be known for?

By David Alfaro

Category: Personal Brand

David Alfaro | Personal Brand Challenge Day 3

What is this challenge?

This is part of a 30-day challenge where I’m building my personal brand — publicly, imperfectly, and with a bit of sarcasm.

👉 See the full challenge here

Day 3 – Who am I talking to? And what do I want them to say about me?

So, Day 3 of the challenge. And the prompt is pretty straightforward:

Challenge task:

Question 1: Who do you want to talk to?
Question 2: How do you want to position yourself?

Let’s start with the “who.” I’m not here to reach everyone. I’m not a motivational guru. I don’t sell crystals or six-pack dreams.

I help established local business owners, the ones who already have something solid going. That’s my people.

I’ve also worked with Med Spas and Aesthetic Clinics, both in the U.S. and Mexico, and I’m leaning more and more into that niche. But let’s be real: my audience is broader (for now).

If you’re a local business in the U.S. or Mexico, and you’ve got:

  • A real business (not just an idea).
  • Existing or past client lists.
  • Quality products or services.
  • And you’re willing to let someone help you grow without micromanaging every button click…

Then we should talk.

Who don’t I work with?

  • Startups (nothing there for a quick win).
  • People who think marketing is magic (or worse, optional).
  • Those who want to “just do ads” or “go viral.”
  • Ecommerce businesses (nothing personal, just not my jam).
  • Anyone who says “just make it pretty.” (Looking pretty doesn’t pay the bills, remember?)

How do I want to be positioned?

This one took some thinking, and a spreadsheet.
Yes, I made a Personal Brand Matrix to decide what I actually want to be known for (because spreadsheets fix everything, right?).

I scored myself on things like:

  • What I know.
  • What I enjoy.
  • What’s in demand.
  • What makes money.
  • And whether I actually want to offer that service.

And after all that?

This is what I landed on:

Websites & Marketing Systems That Sell,
Because looking nice doesn’t pay the bills.

I don’t just build websites. I create connected systems that bring in leads, convert visitors, and build trust online — all while you sleep (or run your business).

And here's the my Personal Brand Matrix (just in case your wondering how it looks)

ServiceSkill LevelEnjoymentMarket DemandProfit PotentialDo I Offer?
Web Design8899Yes
SMS Marketing6767Only as part of Growth Engine
Email Marketing7789Yes
SEO8898Yes
GEO (LLM SEO)3768Possibly in the future
Reputation Management7878Yes
Automations6677Only as part of Growth Engine
Social Media Marketing6876Limited offer
Ad Campaigns3488No
Graphic Design9254No
Copywriting6888Yes (within systems)
Landing Page Optimization7789Yes
Funnels / Lead Gen Systems6789Yes
Google Business Profile Optimization7799Yes
AI Marketing Agents / Automations5678Only if integrated

What did I learn today?

  1. Knowing who you’re talking to changes everything.
    Your message, your offer, your tone — all of it gets sharper and more effective.
  2. Positioning is power. If you don’t decide how you want to be seen, people will do it for you — and probably get it wrong.
  3. Specialists make more money than generalists. Period.
  4. It’s better to be known as “the guy who builds marketing systems that work” than just “the web guy.” Same skillset. Different paycheck.

🧽 Before we wrap this up — Let’s talk clarity.

Before we get into today’s question… I need to get something off my chest.

I’ve been re-reading what I wrote for Day 1 and Day 2 — and, well… it made sense to me.
But then someone asked, “Hey, Bro, what is this about?”

Touché.

So here’s the deal: I’m doing this 30-day challenge to build (and document) my personal brand from scratch.

That means showing up every day, writing without filters, and sharing both the wins and the WTF moments.

But it also means I need to make myself clear.

Because if people don’t understand what you do and why it matters… well, they scroll past.
And that’s worse than a “no.” That’s a “meh.”

So today’s lesson isn’t just about what I know — it’s about how I explain it.

Because your message?

It doesn’t matter if you understand it (yes, you the content creator).
It matters if they do (your audience).

Ready to follow the journey with me?

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David Alfaro

Written by David Alfaro

Websites and Marketing Systems That Sell
Because Looking Nice Doesn’t Pay the Bills.

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